A Father’s Happiest Moments: Celebrating Children’s Achievements in Their Careers

I wrote a heartfelt letter for my daughter way back in 2013, celebrating her completion of the first year of MBBS at the esteemed SCB Medical College & Hospital, Cuttack while I was still serving in the Army. Today, I’d like to share that letter with all the parents who prioritize their children's careers and dreams.

Celebrating Pukuria’s Journey: One Year of MBBS!

It feels like just yesterday when I first heard that precious cry echoing through the bustling halls of the Bagdogra Base Hospital’s operating theatre. In that fleeting moment, I yearned to cradle you in my arms, to bask in the joy of our new beginning. Yet, duty called, and a doctor’s urgent voice grounded me: “Mr. Dash, help shift this patient to ICU immediately.” Each task pulled me away, but when I finally caught a glimpse of you nestled beside your mother, being carried into the ICU, my heart swelled with indescribable love. You were my little miracle, my beacon of hope.

Now, as you celebrate your eighteenth birthday, I find myself marvelling at how swiftly time has flown by. It often feels as if we’re racing against an unseen clock, and I can’t shake the feeling that we don’t have enough time together. After a long, tiring day at work, my little princess approaches me with a gentle smile, a sparkle in her eyes, and says, “Papa, let me remind you that your full attention at home is meant just for me." After a little irritation, I feel better, and then we play. When worries threaten to consume me, your sweet voice breaks through, asking, “Papa, why are you sad? Be happy.” In those precious moments, all my troubles fade away, leaving me in awe of how quickly my baby has grown.

Your presence anchors me, pulling me back to the present as I ponder the future. When you say, “I love you, Papa,” those words resonate deeply within me, meaning more than any grand declaration of love from anyone else in this world. The snuggles, the playful wrestling matches, and the tender hugs we share fill my heart with a joy I wish I could preserve forever.

Yet, as I cherish these moments, I also understand that they, too, are fleeting. With each passing day, I sometimes feel a pang of fear at the thought of time drawing us apart. I can’t help but wonder if my own father experienced the same feelings when I was your age. All fathers treasure the growing years of their children, and I cherish you just as deeply. So, let me take this moment to express once more, as I do countless times a day: “Papa loves you, my daughter… loves you endlessly!”

Today, on October 30, 2024, Pukuria (Dr Bandana Dash, MD Medicine) is not only marking a significant milestone in her journey—Seven Gold Medals to her credit—but is also on the path to becoming a Super Specialist in Endocrinology. I couldn’t be prouder of you! Here’s to a bright and promising future ahead, filled with achievements, joy, and the love we share.